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Men Who Know What They’re Doing

31 Aug 2017, Posted by Aria Austin in Aria's Blog

Men often fall into the trap of rushing sex too quickly towards penetration. They are often blamed for missing the opportunity to draw a woman out via foreplay that truly awakens her body to its potential. But these gender roles are certainly not fixed. I’m seeing more…

Be the Boss of Fear (prequel to The Loveless Warrior)

14 Aug 2017, Posted by Aria Austin in Aria's Blog

After quite some thoughtful consideration he said, “Can I put my hand around your throat?” I was at a tantra event and that was the first thing this young guy requested in an exercise that involved asking permission to touch another for our own pleasure. “Well…

Loveless Warrior

27 Jul 2017, Posted by Aria Austin in Aria's Blog

“If you feel like having your hands at my throat again sometime, I’d love it.” I sent a friend request to a young guy from the temple night event and then followed it up with that message. He arrived with a kit bag. There was…

Remembering Who I Am

22 Mar 2017, Posted by Aria Austin in Aria's Blog

Okay so it happened again.  My name. Since making the move to Byron last year I’ve felt compelled to change it for the second time. I keep shedding more layers that allow the deeper truth of my soul to find expression. It was unexpected and…

I Surrender

31 Jan 2017, Posted by Aria Austin in Aria's Blog

I just had my heart freshly smashed on the rocks of my own staunch position the other day. I was so clever and insightful about someone else’s closure to my love and couldn’t appreciate all the ways I’d been playing at exactly the same game….

Full moon fever – lost my shit & lost my job!

16 Dec 2016, Posted by Aria Austin in Aria's Blog

As an interim thing here in Byron I’d started doing some erotic massage at someone else’s studio. I hadn’t done it for years but it was the first thing that I dived into when I started into tantra and sacred sexuality. For a while I’d…