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Cock Size vs Sexual Super Powers, pt 2

04 Mar 2015, Posted by Aria Austin in Aria's Blog
Sexual Super Stardom

continued from Cock Size vs Sexual Super Powers

 

Tips for Sexual Super-StardomSexual Super Stardom

 

  • First and foremost, get grounded. Tapping into ultimate energetic power requires connection beyond the body to greater universal sources – the earth below and the heavens above. Start by anchoring yourself with grounded energy. Let the soles of your feet meet the bare earth, live in a house/environment that supports you, go camping, do gardening, learn to drum, do the haka, eat well. What makes you feel solid and present? Do that. Anchor your relationship to the earth and you will draw on an enormous power that will supplement your love making. It will help bring strength, certainty and reliability – all very attractive to the feminine.
  • Feel your feelings. Emotions move energy and help to wake us up to reality. The more you’re willing to feel, the more energy you have access to. Be willing to let your heart inform your mind. Great sex comes with great richness of emotion. Feeling and identifying your emotions is essential to awakening the cock and developing sexual fluency.
  • Cultivate a sense of personal power. Do what you love, get good at it and do what it takes to show it off to the world. Determination, self-belief and satisfaction are precious ingredients to sustain lasting power.
  • Find a way to tap into the universal force that flows down from above. Invest time in creative expression, pay attention to signs from the natural world, strengthen your intuition by taking action on your instincts, talk to God, meditate to connect with your higher mind and beyond. Bringing spirit into your life brings spirit into your cock.
  • Relax and get used to sticking around when other people get emotional. Encourage them deeper into their emotional experience rather than out of it. Trust that sometimes things need to get messy and fall into crisis in order to find lasting resolution.  The more comfortable you are with emotional chaos, the more deeply women will invite you in to their body. We’re much more familiar with emotional terrain. If you can show that you’re not afraid of the territory we’ll trust more and more to let you take charge and lead.
  • Speak. Practice brave honesty. Give voice to what you feel, what you want, what your emotions are and whatever thoughts might be distracting you from your body and your connection during sex. As you share the good stuff you’ll heighten the experience of it. As you share the bad stuff you will speed your release from it. Either way you’re connecting more to what’s going on – that helps everyone. Speak up and reveal yourself.
  • The mind will mess no end with the cultivation of consciousness in the cock. Dispense with thinking whenever and however possible. Meditate, do yoga, skip, swim in the ocean, daydream, dance, climb mountains, schedule opportunities for idleness. Let the feel of your body have more focus than your thoughts. Spend more time with trees and water and animals and less time with computers and mobile phones. Train your mind to fall into the background more often in day to day life and you’ll have an easier time of letting it go during sex.
  • Get healthy. Caffeine, alcohol and empty calories will only sustain the very young and the zombie penis. Eat good food and engage in exercise that enlivens you. Vitality and endurance is bolstered when it’s fuelled by more than passion alone.
  • Be brave and reveal your fantasies. Unrealised dreams plague the spirit and fuel desires for escape in infidelity.
  • Don’t be afraid of losing your erection – it’s valuable to traverse the highs and lows. The deeper the valleys (stillness, vulnerability, softness) the higher the peaks (energised, wild, hardness). The body knows what it’s doing. Trust it and listen to what it’s revealing.
  • Shut your eyes every now and then. Visual input will increase thinking – you don’t want that. Closed eyes will help you to be more internal and increase connection with the body and it’s sensations. In order to be good at sex the cock needs to practice feeling, not looking. The superpower of inner vision and seeing into the pussy and the heart will come later, but that will be done with the eyes closed too.
  • For the best eyes open training, practice holding eye contact with your partner. Both during sex and just relaxing around the house. Let there be equal measure of both seeing and allowing yourself to be seen. With practice your souls will emerge in the gaze.
  • Risk wildness. It’s such a precious rarity these days. It will certainly stand you out from the crowd. Read more: Wild Things
  • Go slowly and stop altogether sometimes. It takes a lot of practice to stay fully present at speed. Ask any Formula One driver. Sex is no different. To become masterful the devotee should practice going really slowly. Connection is most readily established when things are still and quiet. Start by stopping to connect with yourself. Rest, go on holidays, read for pleasure, watch the sunset, buy a hammock, sleep in, go fishing. Once you’re comfortable being quiet and still with yourself you’ll be much more comfortable in stillness and silence with others. And it will feel safer to surrender to the immensity of slow sex. It’s a whole new world. This is where the sexual superpowers come into their own.

 

And if after all of that, you’re still stuck on size, you should know that this kind of conscious awareness and cultivation of energy can redesign the body. As the energy of your cock is cultivated and consolidated you can actually grow physically. Yes, you read correctly, you can gain in physical size.