I had sex with a guy on the weekend who I don’t feel inclined to sleep with ever again. He failed in the art of holding space and retreating with openness. He wasn’t prepared to keep his heart open to maintain an energetic connection beyond…
Any time I’ve had sex with a porn conditioned man it hasn’t been particularly rewarding. They’re trained to look but not to feel. I’ve found that they miss opportunities to draw out delicate sensations because of their speedy approach. They are much more intent on…
Recently I was doing battle with the nagging beast that is loneliness. It can be a cruel foe. Not stirring and invigorating like anger can be. Not edgy and adrenalizing like anxiety. It’s okay to talk about being angry and it can be okay to…
I often get inquiries from men who are desperate to learn ‘technique’. They want to know the sure fire tricks to pleasuring women. My response is always to impress upon them the importance of cultivating presence. Presence is far and away the best vehicle for…
I’m a hug and kiss kinda girl. In greetings, lots of times I find most people either go for one or the other. But I’m always keen to make it a one/two, kiss/hug combo if there’s an opening for it. Feels much heartier to me….
I love boxing. Full contact, up close, rough and tumble. I’m not such a fan of training on my own with the heavy bag or skipping rope or shadow boxing. What I get a real thrill from is pairing up with someone to do pad…
